May be time
has changed, may be things have changed, may be the whole perspective have changed,
may be changed is the life…………. But this change is so little and for very few………
and for a whole large number till the infinity the story remains the same…………. And
here’s the story of love, appreciation, and value of women yet again…………. Who says
women are not loved, appreciated and valued enough……..
Women are
loved, pampered and appreciated a lot when they act dumb. They are loved when
they keep on pretending that they don’t have a mind superior to others. They are loved when they say that - yes I exist only for you and
only because of you. They are loved every time they surrender to the wishes of
others. They are loved and valued and appreciated for sacrificing their lives,
time, money, interests, hobbies and most of all their careers. They are loved
when they make everybody else the priority of their lives but themselves. They
are loved when they eat last, when they sleep last, when they stop
feeling for themselves and spending time for themselves. They are loved for
cooking and spending most of their lifetime in kitchen. They are loved for taking the whole responsibilities of bringing up a child. They are loved when everybody
else in the house find their things at places even without keeping them at place
on their own. They are loved for understanding the needs and not having needs
themselves. They are loved for not complaining, not countering, not arguing.
Women are
loved for controlling their anger and frustrations. They are loved for
unlearning their rights and not missing to fulfil their duties towards all. If
at all they are loved, they are loved for speaking soft and sweet and for
holding sour and truth within. Women are valued for devaluing their lives. They
are appreciated for not appreciating themselves. They are liked for not liking
themselves. They are loved for remaining confused throughout their lives. They
are loved when they say they don’t know what do they love the most… they are
loved for the pretended blemished innocence despite of being clear, smart,
decisive, intelligent. They are loved and motivated for living a totally unacknowledged life.
Women are
loved for covering themselves and keeping a veil over their mind, soul and heart.
Women are loved for keeping a veil over the harassment and exploitation. Women
are loved for keeping silence against domestic violence and abuse. Women are
loved when they don’t ask for logic. Women are loved for not questioning, while
they are questioned whole of their lives. Women are loved for not saying No. Women
are loved for taking all the responsibilities out of their limits and
competence. Women are loved for not being themselves the centre of their lives.
Women are
loved for being delicate, introvert, and yet slogger. Women are loved for not rebelling. Women are loved for being ready to be blamed.
They are loved for surviving the relationships despite of their abuse and
exploitation. They are loved, appreciated and valued for unconditional urge to
have a house and making it the basis of their lives. They are loved for
remaining financially dependent.
They are loved for being vulnerable and getting victimised.
Women are
loved for they keep waiting, they keep waiting for everybody else to understand
their needs. Women are loved for not uttering their desires. They are loved for
killing their ambitions and sacrificing their dreams. Women are loved for
living someone else’s desires, ambitions and dreams. Women are appreciated for
all the balance they keep despite of the whole imbalanced behaviour against
them. Women are loved for surviving the suffocation and condition themselves
accordingly. Women are loved from centuries to centuries only and only for
being a women. Women are loved for not demanding a life of a human being. Women
are loved, appreciated and valued for all the wrong reasons.
